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Growing old without the support and company of people close to you is tougher. So please, those of you over 70 who have got through a crisis like this, write and let me and Sylvia know how you did it. We would both be grateful for your shared experience. I am all in favour of people pulling themselves together but, Sylvia, sometimes you just can't do it alone.

You need medical help. If you live Lonely looking for female company a state of fear and panic and cry all the time, you Lonely looking for female company suffering from serious depression, or even having a nervous breakdown, and you must explain your situation to your GP.

I recognise everything you are telling me: That very Lady looking sex FL Saint cloud 34771 of mind is preventing you from reaching out for help. Because of your social isolation, there is nobody around you to say, "This isn't normal, you need help".

So I am saying it instead. What can your GP do? Quite a lot.

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Being self-sufficient leads to isolation, and isolation doesn't work as we grow older. It can be self-perpetuating and lead to the fearful depressive femalr in which you find yourself. I am sure that your legal, financial and practical problems have contributed to your exhaustion. We all need the love and support of other people.

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Those friends you don't see any more Lonely looking for female company still there, probably feeling that you don't need them. Keep it light, an informal call to say, "How are you? Haven't seen you for ages. Do you fancy a coffee? Tell your neighbours that you're bored of walking your dog on your own and see if someone would like to come with you.

Break a habit — join a walking group. Consciously make an effort to pursue an interest through a day or evening class. Your address sounds very rural.

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I strongly suggest that you invest in a simple computer and get on email. You can find someone to teach you how, or go to classes. Your grandchildren almost certainly only communicate by Horny Sabadell woman and text and will happily stay in touch with you if you start emailing them.

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Give yourself some self-care. I see that your local town has an alternative health centre that offers all kinds of services. I would recommend a massage, some yoga, and even some counselling or hypnotherapy for your phobias, something your GP might also help you with.

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